Marriage Ceremony: New Testament Selections
Please inform the priest officiating at your wedding the letter # of your New Testament selection
(NT-1) The Love of Christ
(Romans 8: 31b-35, 37-39)
A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Romans:
With God on our side who can be against us?
Since God did not spare his own Son, but gave him up to benefit us all,
we may be certain, after such a gift, that he will not refuse anything
he can give. Could anyone accuse those that God has chosen? When God
acquits, could anyone condemn? Could Christ Jesus? No!! He not only
died for us — he rose from the dead, and there at God's right hand he
stands and pleads for us. Nothing therefore can come between us and the
love of Christ, even if we are troubled or worried, or being
persecuted, or lacking food or clothes, or being threatened or even
attacked. These are the trials through which we triumph, by the power
of him who loved us. For I am certain of this; neither death nor life,
no angel, no prince, nothing that exists, nothing still to come, not
any power, or height or depth, nor any created thing can ever come
between us and the love of God made visible in Christ Jesus our Lord.
The word of the Lord.
The Life of a Christian
(NT-2s) Short Version: Romans 12:1-2, 9-13
A reading from the letter of Paul to the Romans:
Think of God's mercy, my brothers and sisters, and worship him, I beg
you, in a way that is worthy of thinking beings, by offering your
living bodies as a holy sacrifice, truly pleasing to God. Do not model
yourselves on the behavior of the world around you, but let your
behavior change, modeled by your new mind. This is the only way to
discover the will of God and know what is good, what it is that God
wants, what is the perfect thing to do. Do not let your love be a
pretense, but sincerely prefer good to evil. Love each other as much as
siblings should, and have a profound respect for each other. Work for
the Lord with untiring effort and with earnestness of spirit. If you
have hope, this will make you cheerful. Do not give up if trials come;
and keep on praying. If any of the saints are in need you must share
with them; and you should make hospitality your special care.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-2l)The Life of a Christian
(NT-2L) Long Version: Romans 12:1-2, 9-18
A reading from the letter of Paul to the Romans:
Think of God's mercy, by brothers and sisters, and worship him, I beg
you, in a way that is worthy of thinking beings, by offering your
living bodies as a holy sacrifice, truly pleasing to God. Do not model
yourselves on the behavior of the world around you, but let your
behavior change, modeled by your new mind. This is the only way to
discover the will of God and know what is good, what it is that God
wants, what is the perfect thing to do. Do not let your love be a
pretense, but sincerely prefer good to evil. Love each other as much as
brothers should, and have a profound respect for each other. Work for
the Lord with untiring effort and with earnestness of spirit.
If you have hope, this will make you cheerful. Do not give up if trials
come; and keep on praying. If any of the saints are in need you must
share with them; and you should make hospitality your special care.
Bless those who persecute you; never curse them, bless them. Rejoice
with those who rejoice and be sad with those in sorrow. Treat everyone
with equal kindness; never be condescending but make real friends with
the poor. Do not allow yourself to become self-satisfied. Never repay
evil with evil but let everyone see you are interested only in the
highest ideals. Do all you can to live at peace with everyone.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-3) Your Members are Temples of the Holy Spirit
(I Corinthians 6:13c-15a, 17-20)
A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Corinthians:
The body — is not meant for fornication; it is for the Lord, and the
Lord for the Body. God, who raised the Lord from the dead, will by his
power raise us up too. You know, surely, that your bodies are members
making up the body of Christ. But anyone who is joined to the Lord is
one spirit with him. Keep away from fornication. All the other sins are
committed outside the body; but to fornicate is to sin against your own
body. Your body, you know, is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in
you since you received him from God. You re not your own property; you
have been brought and paid for. That is why you should use your body
for the glory of God.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-4) The Greatest of These is Love
(1 Corinthians 12:31-13:8a)
A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Corinthians.
Be ambitious for the higher gifts. And I am going to show you a way
that is better than any of them. If I have all the eloquence of men or
of angels, but speak without love, I am simply a gong booming or a
cymbal clashing. If I have the gift of prophecy, understanding all the
mysteries there are, and know everything and if I have faith in all its
fullness, to move mountains, but am without love, then I am nothing at
all. If I give away all that I possess, piece by piece, and if I even
let them take my body to burn it, but am without love, it will do me no
good whatever.
Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous; love is never
boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take
offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's
sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust,
to hope, and to endure whatever comes.
Love does not come to an end.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-5s) The Mystery of Marriage
A. Short Version (Ephesians 5:2a, 25-32)
A reading from the letter of Paul to the Ephesians:
Follow Christ by loving as he loved you. Give way to one another in
obedience to Christ. Wives should regard their husbands as they regard
the Lord, since as Christ is head of the Church and saves the whole
family, so is a husband the head of his wife; and as the Church submits
to Christ, so should wives to their husbands, in everything.
Husbands should love their wives just as Christ loved the Church and
sacrificed himself for her to make her holy. He made her clean by
washing her in water with a form of words, so that when he took her to
himself she would be glorious, with no speck or wrinkle or anything
like that, but holy and faultless.
A man never hates his own body, but he feeds it and looks after it; and
that is the way Christ treats the Church, because it is his body — and
we are his living parts. For this reason, a man must leave his father
and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one body.
This mystery has many implications; but I am saying it applies to
Christ and the Church.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-5L) The Mystery of Marriage
(NT-5) Long Version: (Ephesians 5:2a, 21-33)
A reading from the letter of Paul to the Ephesians:
Follow Christ by loving as he loved you. Give way to one another in
obedience to Christ. Wives should regard their husbands as they regard
the Lord, since as Christ is head of the Church and saves the whole
family, so is a husband the head of his wife; and as the Church submits
to Christ, so should wives to their husbands, in everything.
Husbands should love their wives just as Christ loved the Church and
sacrificed himself for her to make her holy. He made her clean by
washing her in water with a form of words, so that when he took her to
himself she would be glorious, with no speck or wrinkle or anything
like that, but holy and faultless.
A man never hates his own body, but he feeds it and looks after it; and
that is the way Christ treats the Church, because it is his body - and
we are his living parts. For this reason, a man must leave his father
and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one body.
This mystery has many implications; but I am saying it applies to
Christ and the Church.
To sum up; you too, each one of you, must love his wife as he loves himself; and let every wife respect her husband.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-6) Live in Love and Thanksgiving
(Colossians 3:12-17)
A reading from the letter of Paul to the Colossians:
You are God's chosen race, his saints; he loves you, and you should be
clothed in sincere compassion, in kindness and humility, gentleness and
patience. Bear with one another; forgive each other as soon as a
quarrel begins. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same.
Over all these clothes, to keep them together and complete them, put on
love. And may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts, because it is
for this that you were called together as parts of one body. Always be
thankful.
Let the message of Christ, in all its richness, find a home with you.
Teach each other, and advise each other, in all wisdom. With gratitude
in your hearts sing psalms and hymns and inspired songs to God; and
never say or do anything except in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving
thanks to God the Father through him.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-7) Peace and Harmony in the Family
(1 Peter 3:1-9)
A reading from the first letter of Peter:
Wives should be obedient to their husbands. Then, if there are some
husbands who have not yet obeyed the word, they may find themselves won
over, without a word spoken, by the way their wives behave, when they
see how faithful and conscientious they are. Do not dress up for show;
doing up your hair, wearing gold bracelets and fine clothes; all this
should be inside, in a person's heart, imperishable; the ornament —
this is what is precious in the sight of God.
That was how the holy women of the past dressed themselves attractively
— they hoped in God and were tender and obedient to their husbands;
like Sarah, who was obedient to Abraham, and called him her Lord. You
are now her children, as long as you live good lives and do not give
way to fear and worry. In the same way, husbands must treat their wives
with consideration in their life together, respecting a woman as one
who, though she may be the weaker partner, is equally an heir to the
life of grace. This will stop anything from coming in the way of your
prayers.
Finally: you should all agree among yourselves and be sympathetic; love
the brothers, have compassion and be self-effacing. Never pay back one
wrong with another, or an angry word with another one; instead, pay
back with a blessing. That is what you are called to do, so that you
inherit a blessing yourself.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-8)Love, Real and Active
(1 John 3:18-24)
A reading from the first letter of John:
My children, our love is not to be just words or mere talk, but
something real and active; only by this can we be certain that we are
children of truth and be able to quiet our conscience in his presence,
whatever accusations it may raise against us, because God is greater
than our conscience and he knows everything.
Me dear people, if we cannot be condemned by our own conscience, we
need not be afraid in God's presence, and whatever we ask him, we shall
receive, because we keep his commandments and live the kind of life
that he wants. His commandments are these: that we believe in the name
of his Son Jesus Christ and that we love one another as he told us to.
Whoever keeps his commandments lives in God and God lives in him. We
know that he lives in us by the Spirit that he has given us.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-9) God is Love
(I John 4:7-12)
A reading from the first letter of John:
My dear people, let us love one another since love comes from God and
everyone who loves is begotten by God and knows God. Anyone who fails
to love can never have known God, because God is love. God's love for
us was revealed when God sent into the world his only Son so that we
could have ave life through him; this is the love I mean: not our love
for God, but God's love for us when he sent his Son to be the sacrifice
that takes our sins away.
My dear people, since God has loved us so much, we too should love one
another. No one has ever seen God; but as long as we love one another
God will live in us and his love will be complete in us.
The word of the Lord.
(NT-10) Marriage of the Lamb
(Revelation 19:1, 5-9a)
A reading from the book of Revelation:
"I, John, seemed to hear the great sound of a huge crowd in heaven,
singing, 'Alleluia! Victory and glory and power to our God!'" Then a
voice came from the throne; it said, "Praise our God, you servants of
his and all who, great or small, revere him." And I seemed to hear the
voices of a huge crowd, like the sound of the ocean or the great roar
of thunder, answering, "Alleluia! The reign of the Lord our God
Almighty has begun; let us be glad and joyful and give praise to God,
because this is the time for the marriage of the Lamb. "His bride is
ready, and she has been able to free herself in dazzling white linen,
because linen is made of the good deeds of the saints." The angel said,
"Write this: Happy are those who are invited to the wedding feast of
the Lamb."
The word of the Lord.